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The 10-Minute Pause

A guided pause before acting on an emotional urge.

  1. 1 Put your phone down for a moment, if you can.
  2. 2 Name the urge: “I want to ___.”
  3. 3 Ask: what am I really needing right now?
  4. 4 Breathe slowly while the timer runs. Urges rise and fall like waves.

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